How Zoomers are redefining romance and connection

Cuffing season, situationships and “puriteens”. What are Gen Z’s perceptions of sex, love and relationships? Let’s take a Deep Dive.

📱 Gen Z are more likely to prioritise friendships over romantic relationships. They are also more likely to use technology such as dating apps to meet people and communicate with friends and partners.

🌈 Gen Z has a significant number of people who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. They are generally more open to non-traditional dating scenarios such as open relationships and polyamory.

💗 While more accepting of casual relationships, Gen Z is having sex later, less often and with fewer partners. Some are also being labelled “puriteens”, a term used to describe a teenager who is uncomfortable with sexual content online or behaviour they deem sexually suggestive.

 

QUOTABLE

“I’ve never felt like a woman, to be honest with you. I identify as she/her and things like that, but I’ve never really felt like a girl.”
- Billie Eilish, singer and actress

 

BY THE NUMBERS

86% 86 percent of Gen Z believe that same-sex marriage should be allowed, as opposed to only 72 percent of millennials and 57 percent of Gen Xers.

30% In 2021, 30 percent of teens reported having had sex, down from 38 percent in 2019. Three decades ago, more than half of teens reported having sex.

366 million The use of online dating platforms is on the rise. Up from 240.9 million in 2016, 366 million people were on dating apps in 2022.

 

QUIZ

The following are reasons why Gen Z is doing the deed less, except: 

A. Anxiety about sexual consent and boundaries
B. Disappointment with the current dating culture 
C. Issues with technology
D. Slow-life factor

Scroll to the bottom for the answer.

 

DID YOU KNOW?

Thanks to digitalisation and easy access, Gen Z is more accepting of pornography as an acceptable way to express one’s sexuality. This mindset is in stark comparison to their parents’ generation. Yet, Gen Z is still engaging in less sex than previous generations. 

 

THE EDIT

🤕 Flings and things. Studies show that casual sex may lead to poor effects on the mental health of both men and women.

🦄 Swiping right. Members of the LGBTQ+ community are more likely to try online dating than their heterosexual peers. 

💯 Quality over quantity. Gen Z is values-driven when it comes to dating, emphasising the need for honesty, setting boundaries and self-expression in relationships. 

🌡 Covid-19 comparison. The pandemic has caused many Gen Z to experience feelings of loneliness, isolation and social anxiety, which has in turn affected their appetite for romance and the way they physically interact with their partners.

 

WATCH

Zoomers open up about their reasons for having less sex in this streetside interview.

 

THE FULL PICTURE

These are some of the types of relationships that millennials and Gen Z are engaged in.

 

KEY PLAYER

Olivia Rodrigo
Olivia Rodrigo is the 20-year-old singer and songwriter behind some of today’s most popular love songs. Her debut album, Sour, broke records and became the first album released this century to spend over a full year in the top 10 of the Billboard 200.

 

HONOUREE TO KNOW

Rania Salsabila Azzahra Rusli
Rania Salsabila Azzahra Rusli founded the youth organisation SeeForCare when she was a teenager. Focusing on sustainable development, education, health, economic empowerment, and the preservation of arts and culture, it managed 150 projects within its first two years.

 

ONE FINAL THING

If you’re wondering what’s next in Gen Z dating trends, the answer is: maybe nothing at all. With different goals in mind, it seems that Zoomers are quite content with being single.

 

NEXT TIME

The answer to the quiz is C (Issues with technology).